The Art of Actually Getting Through to Your Children

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk

This widely celebrated guide from parenting specialists Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish has earned its reputation as one of the most practical books you'll find on family communication. It's not about theory for theory's sake. It gives you real, step-by-step approaches that genuinely shift the dynamic between parent and child. The book covers a surprising range of everyday challenges: breaking the cycle of repeated arguments, handling a child's difficult emotions with care, and winning cooperation without resorting to threats or bribery. It also tackles the trickier stuff, like how to set firm boundaries whilst keeping the relationship warm, how to voice frustration honestly without causing hurt, and how to bring family disagreements to a peaceful close. What makes it work is its clarity. Each technique feels accessible rather than overwhelming, and the authors write with enough warmth to remind you that struggling with these conversations is entirely normal. Whether you're navigating the chaos of toddlerhood or the sullen silences of adolescence, there's something here worth reading.

  • Author: Adele Faber
  • Publisher: Bonnier
  • Genre: Family & Relationships
  • ISBN: 978-1848126329
  • Pages: 368 pages